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The Crying Game

by shaz on Thursday, March 02, 2006 at 08:49 PM
read more about: 2 year olds. kids will be kids. stressed out mom.

If you have, or ever had a toddler, you’ve experienced the joy of a tantrum, the crying and screaming can make anyone want to jump off a bridge! Well, maybe just “think” about jumping off a bridge…

Newborns crying can sometimes give you a headache, but you think to yourself…it’s a small, helpless little baby, and they are usually pacified by just being held…(although I know that at 3AM you may be pondering the bridge thing) But a toddler crying is a whole different ball game…now they now how to talk…so now it goes something like this…”muuuuuuuummmy, daddddddddddyyyy, muuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmy, dadddddddddddyyyyyyyy” It feels like they are physically in your head…pounding on your skull…shaking up your brains…well, you get the picture.

Sanity check?

As long as they are some place safe, like a high chair, or a crib, where they cannot get into trouble, you can go into a different room and just let them cry for a bit…not only is crying good for the lungs, but it can also act as a natural sedative!! Ever notice after a nice long cry…they are usually so pacified, you can get the opportunity to hold them…(which is rare after they learn how to walk)

At least the baby is still asleep!

Toddlers and Preschoolers

by shaz on Thursday, March 02, 2006 at 08:44 PM
read more about: kids will be kids. mom of a few. stressed out mom.

More than one kid at home is not really that much harder to manage than having just the one…the thing with multiple children is that their interaction with each other can make anyone NUTS!!! I wonder how teachers do it. I think the secret there is that it’s not their own kids!?!?

Some days I can feed them both (and myself) a meal in less than 10 minutes…some days we can go on for more than an hour…

Why?

I sit in the middle of them, which is mostly a good position, but it also gives them an opportunity to play peekaboo with each other!! Which you would think is a good distraction for them…and I guess it is…IF you REALLY enjoy the sound of kids screaming and laughing at the top of their lungs on either side of your head!

Keeping my sanity…

They are both still sitting in front of their quarter-eaten food, playing with each other…and I am writing this…waiting for one (or both) of them to get hurt…and start crying…and THEN…maybe I can finish feeding…

At least the baby is still asleep!

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