"Be Quite! I am on the phone!"

Said my ‘almost 4 year old’ to me as I interrupted his pretend call with his dad… He laughed; he spoke words I could not understand with some “you know” and “sometimes” thrown in… “You’re so funny daddy” he continued his conversation, “O.K. bye bye, love you!” He then passed me the phone and said he was all done.

My son is almost 4, we sometimes forget that he is still just a baby too, he seems so grown up, so mature. He even helps me with taking care of his brothers, on his good days at least! On his bad days, he pulls the 2 year old’s hair, pushes the 2 year old, takes all the toys for himself, and passes out orders to us all!

Today was a shocker… my almost 4 year old asked to go outside… (its hot outside, H.O.T., and I am from the Caribbean!) so I said ok but for a little while. He got slippers for himself and his brother, he went outside for less than 5 minutes then came back in and called his brother back in, and he took their slippers back to ‘where the slippers live’!

Next surprise… he asked to go to sleep for naptime!! I brought them up and gave them milk (yeah he still drinks milk from a bottle…) As I was nursing the baby, I did not go back to get the bottles once they were done… my almost 4 year old got his bottle, and his brother’s bottle, and brought the bottles to me. Then he went back in their room.

By the time that I finished with the baby and went to check on them, they were asleep! He even closed in their room door!

Wouldn’t you be in shock too?!?

Well, at least the baby is still behaving as expected… while the other 2 sleep, he is making loud “ah ah ah ah” noises, trying to escape his crib, and complaining every time he notices that someone is not holding him!

Parenting 101.

After becoming a parent, what becomes our number 1 priority? Our children? Protecting our children, taking care of our children, making sure our children are away from dangerous situation.

I cannot imagine the feelings of parents in Lebanon. I can’t imagine how it feels to not be able to do anything to protect my kids.

I heard that “soccer moms” are in favour of war, in favour of killing innocent people because they are “weeding out the terrorists”!

Lebanon’s health minister now says about 750 people – mainly civilians – have been killed by Israeli action in Lebanon since their operations began 19 days ago.

A total of 51 Israelis, including at least 18 civilians, have been killed in the conflict, sparked by Hezbollah’s capture of two Israeli soldiers in a cross-border raid earlier in July.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/5228224.stm

So people, 2 soldiers captured, and let me stress SOLDIERS, are worth the lives of 801 people?

In my opinion, stereotyping has made people in North America lose their sense of humanity, their sense of justice, their empathy… not every Arab is Muslim, not every Muslim is Arab.

And “terrorists” are individuals. Just like we do not assume that all Christian pastors are rapists beacuse of the actions of a few, we should not assume that all Muslims are “terrorists” because of the actions of a few! These are innocent children, children that learn from their environment, children that are learning about war and revenge, children that are signing bombs!

Stop stereotyping. Seek some knowledge!

Do you think that it is right if I say that all “soccer moms” are ignorant? Mothers should be the first to say stop the war, stop killing kids… Does it only matter if they are our own kids?

Working mom?

I am not exactly a stay at home mom… I am on maternity leave from my day job. Here in Canada we get 1 year off… its really nice and does make us feel like we are stay at home moms… until it ends.

My time ends in December, and so now I am trying to figure out what I am going to do… can I be a working mom with 3 kids under 4?

I have a project that I am working on right now, which is taking up most of my time. I am getting an idea of what life is going to be like as a working mom… I don’t think I like it! There are working moms who make it look easy, and some are really great at balancing everything, but I don’t know if its for me.

Frustrated. Tired, actually exhausted. Constant headache. Very short temper. Almost vanishing milk supply. Little sleep. Too much screaming.

As my project only lasts a month, I am fine with it, I know there is an end, I know it does not happen often, I sometimes enjoy the change of pace, I know that I will be back to normal when I am done. But what’s going to become of me when I am working? And what’s going to become of my kids? I am not sure that I want to be on the verge of a nervous breakdown all the time!

Is it worth it?

Less experience please.

Today it occured to me that parenting must be the only job where having alot of experience makes us perform worse…

My eldest son never had chocolate, ice cream, candy, and other sweet stuff until after he was 2 years old, and he never had it very often.

My second child had the sweet stuff after he was 1 year.

Meet my third son… the 6 month old…

Yummy!!

Disclaimer: The baby only had a couple sucks of the popsicle, he did not really eat the whole box! And the kids still don’t have sweet stuff too often.

And let me say something about these popsicles that my cousin introduced me to… they are just about the best thing since slice bread!! Especially in this heat! And if you’re pregnant… you should definately get some because I feel like it would make a great pregnancy snack! Enjoy! And thanks to my cousin

What to do with a nutty toddler?

Midol?

My husband thinks that our toddler is behaving like he has PMS. That means he is behaving moody, cranky, and unpredictable, changing his mind often, and crying for everything… So, I guess this is a guy’s version of what PMS is…

Anyways, back to the toddler, who woke up because the baby was screaming. He woke up, and started crying and screaming while running to the steps. (We have a gate) He stands at the gate and refuses to move, or listen to us.

My husband goes to close their bedroom door so that the 3 year old does not get up as well… the toddler “freaks out” completely, starts screaming “no, no!”, and running around in circles…

At this point, we don’t know what is up with him… our guess is hunger.

He sees the bottle of milk and freaks out again “milk, milk, milk”, then drinks 1 oz and says he’s all done??!? Ok, now I don’t get this kid.

My husband manages to get him to finish the milk, so we’re thinking that he’s going to be in a better mood now…

Ok, no!

He’s now on our bed, and refuses to let his dad come back on the bed. He starts crying and screaming, grabbing the pillows, telling him “no”...

Hubby goes back in toddler’s bed and I haven’t seen him since!

Toddler starts crying and asking for his daddy!

All this drama and its only 7am!!!!!!

Isn’t it nice when your husband leaves you with crying baby and nutty toddler? So thoughtful… now, I can enjoy the morning, as I wake to the beautiful sounds of my beautiful babies!